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| Certain things happened for reasons, and Ba Zi would give you a clearer picture on your destiny even though it only makes only 33% of your total destiny! |
Alright,
let’s go to the core of our issue—Learning Ba Zi. I won’t reveal my Ba Zi chart
to you for the moment, since I consider it to be more personal in nature, but
no worries, since I will share some parts of my Personal Chart and show you how
Ba Zi can be utilized to maximize your potentials to its fullest! My Ba Zi chart clearly shows that my present
10-year luck is not quite a promising one, even though there are some
“favourable elements” do play their parts. I would like to pin-point this issue
to one issue only--personal relationship. There is a very clear and permanent
indicator in my own 8 Pillars of Destiny that says “It is better to stay away
from relationships and even if there is one, it will never last for long”-TRUE!
This is one of the checkpoints of Ba Zi where one of my unluckiest encounter
did occur exactly on the time indicated in my Luck Pillars.
Based
on the advanced concepts of Ba Zi, one very important point that I would like
to focus on is what the Ba Zi experts called as the “Monkey-Snake-Tiger Combination”
that occurs somewhere a few years ago that gave me a deep grief; even to this
day. It was worsened by:-
(a) The existent
permanent clash that in the Spousal Pillar; the Yin Fire Snake in the Day
Pillar clashes with the Yin Water Boar in the Month Pillar!
(b) This
clash occurs in my Personal Eight Pillars Chart; that means this clash will
occur throughout my entire life! The presence of the Direct Wealth star in the
spousal pillar clearly shows that I will be in direct confrontation with the
person whom I considered as my soul mate.
(c) This
type of clash is considered as a severe one since the same polarity (Yin Snake
–Yin Boar) clashes are more serious than the different polarity slashes (e.g
Yin Snake- Yang Rat).
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| No matter how "perfect" is your new boyfriend, if he is not meant for you, then does it, understand? |
This
already explained why any kinds of spousal relationships will never come to a
good ending---despite whatsoever effort or good luck Feng Shui trinkets used to
heal the situation. What’s the only solution? Stay single for the rest of my
life---I guess..LOL!
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| A full-screen capture of my eight pillars of destiny chart. For confidentiality, I have deleted some of the information to avoid people from manipulating my Ba Zi. |
I am
sure those who practice Classical Ba Zi will realize that the only solution to
heal or at least to minimize its bad effects is by introducing a certain
“animal sign” into the clashing animal signs in the Ba Zi chart. In most cases,
where no other combinations involved, a relationship can be healed, but in my
case, for instance, it wasn’t as easy as suggested. The year of the Tiger
(2010) which was supposedly to “heaI” the clash actually worsened the
condition. WHY? The Fire Snake from my Day Pillar combines with the Yang Metal Monkey
from the 10-year luck pillar (age 30-39). This pair is known as the
Combination-Destruction structure.
As
the Combination-Destruction pair entered the Year of Tiger (2010)…you will get
the super-worst Snake-Monkey-Tiger combo! You got the picture right? The Tiger
can only act as a ‘saviour’ only after I have moved into another 10-Year Luck
Pillar, which is going to happen in another 8 years! As I did further reading
in a book on Classical Ba Zi, the events
and the person involved in the combination were accurately depicted! Let us go into each animal sign. For those who
are used to the directions of the 12 animals, surely they know that the Snake’s
location is the South East; the Monkey Southwest and finally the Tiger,
Northeast. Then how could the directions tell me the origin of the persons
involved in this formation? I will list out each detail as follows:-
(a) The Snake
represents my Self (homeland) which is Sarawak; exactly located southeast of
Malaysia. (check my birth certificate; surely it is 100% TRUE!)
(b) The Monkey (10-year
Luck Pillar) represents where the relationship first took place (spark); yupp
you get it now, southwest of Sarawak is exactly its capital city, Kuching (read
the map if you’re saying that I’m bluffing around)
(c) The Tiger (the
Year Pillar—so-called “savior”), specifically mentions the origin of the person
involved (origin)…(Northeast of Sarawak/Borneo?)---I’m not going to purposely
annoy someone for this; but you should know how to read directions, right?).
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| This is the permanent clash that I meant just now; the Yin Fire Snake in the Spousal Palace clashes with Yin Water Boar |
This depiction was so accurate that I
totally awed years after the incident! It clearly explained that a supposedly
“healing animal sign” becomes the one that causes destruction in a
relationship. Was that possible? Yes, it was. Further reading of the book
explains that this combination means that the “right person” who is considered
as a “savior” was the one who betrays and kills the short-lived relationship. As
we go deeper into the analysis, it was also revealed that another
Combination-Destruction structure exists as the Snake-Monkey branch was formed
throughout the present 10-Year Luck Pillar. The Combination-Destruction can be
interpreted as a good beginning with a tragic ending vice versa.
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| The original screen-captured view of how the Day Master (Yin Fire Snake) forms the Combination-Destruction with the 10-year luck pillar (29-39 years old!) |
(a) Fire
Yin Snake represents Friends and Companions while the Metal Yang Monkey
represents the Wealth Element.
(b) The favorability
of a combination depends on the type of new element produced. In my case, the Snake-Monkey
Combination produces a new element; which is Water and surely this is my most
unfavorable element! In a nutshell, this Combination is like adding a salt to
the wound!
Since
I am a weak Yin Fire, the presence of the new Water and Metal Elements will
further weaken my Self Element and definitely I was totally extinguished! When
we interpret it into a real life situation, it clearly means that the purpose
of gathering wealth (money; and since its polarity is Yang, it means money
gained from a “moving source”, which is salary) is to impress my friends and
colleagues around me. Since I can’t gain control over my Wealth, instead of
making me feeling happy, it became a source of burden and suffering for me. The
new Water element represents authority and that represents an “extinguishing
task”. Luckily, even though I was feeling demotivated by the incidents that
occurred around me that time, my friends and colleagues never took advantage on
me since the Companion element was direly needed in this crucial situation.
I am
not cynically pointing out my ex-lover’s fault, but rather I would like to
prove that things did happen despite whatsoever effort that we put on to “save”
the relationship. Yes, after almost a decade since my last breakup, I did know
someone during that particular year which I believed as “the one” who was going
to change my life forever but….alas! Our unexpected web-based love relationship
which was initially for lust satisfaction suddenly turned into an
almost-serious relationship; it was almost a near-perfection version of the
person I was looking for; as that was truly an Utopian manifesto. Serve me
right, I was too carried away by my lovey-dovey feelings and heeded all the
warnings that were clearly indicated in my Ba Zi! As an end result, I fell into
the bottomless pit and I was totally out of sync! I was ignorant and say ‘nay’
to the warnings portrayed symbolically in the Ba Zi chart that time and to my
surprise, it did happened! As you read
this, I would strongly encourage those who are still learning the knowledge of
the Ba Zi to practice what you have learnt, never ever be a pharisaical person,
who is good at preaching doctrinal values but never practice it! I was, but I
will always remind myself that it won’t happen again next time.
Years
that follow (be it the years of the Snake-Boar) will not even promise anything
either, even the luck of the present Dragon year won’t do any good to heal the
permanent clash in my Ba Zi chart. Neither the next 8 years in my present Luck
Pillar. In the other hand, I should concentrate on other aspects of my life
such as career (and definitely the partnership type career) and financial
planning for the future. By the way, the next 10-year luck pillar will promise
a better future. At that time, my most favourable element, the Yang Wood which
represents the Resource Element will push my dreams to the limitless skies! Hopefully
my luck will change for good as my age will turn 39…hmm…that means I have to
wait for another 9 years for my luck to be truly ripen and bear its sweet
fruits..:). I won’t mind at all if my hair will turn grey that time. The Wheel
of Karma will always spin; it solely depends on our past and present karmic
actions that will determine whether it’s going to move faster or slower.
Many
people asked me when I am going to have a settled life and a family of my own. Since
I’m not a “waiting silently” type, so I know exactly how to respond to this
irritating but yet can be answered in a simple manner:--“I’m searching but I
found no one that suits my taste. I don’t want to just simply marry anyone and regretting
myself spending my lifetime with the WRONG TYPE OF PERSON!” By the way, I’m not
really concerned about getting old; many couples married at a relatively
“later” age, but yet they enjoyed a prosperous and joyful life. There are also
some couples who got married at a very young age and ended up with divorce and
another chain of marriage-divorce-remarriage dilemma. I learnt my lesson that love s not simply
just marrying a person; but to love and cherish your spouse for all days of
your life. It is not necessarily old means worn out or out of date, but rather
it means an age of maturity. Cross my fingers, I am working ahead towards it, I
know I can!
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